Tuesday, April 03, 2012

sudah sunat!

pada suatu malam, setelah sekian lama si ibu bapa mendragkan upacara men-sunatkan anak perempuannya disebabkan pelbagai masalah (doctor locum la, doctor laki bertugas la, tak buat on weekend laa), maka tanpa berlengah-lengah lagi si ibu dan si ayah telah membawa anak perempuannya ke klinik islam untuk tujuan tersebut. tidak diendahkan walaupun malam sudah menjelma, yang penting misi untuk mensunatkan anak perempuannya tercapai pada hari tersebut.


 inilah anak perempuannya yang berusia 4bulan 1mg) yang kelihatan terkejut dengan keputusan ibu bapanya untuk membawa anaknya ke klinik untuk disunatkan pada malam itu juga (2/4/12, 8.30pm). 


sampai sahaja di klinik, kelihatan begitu ramai orang sekali. waktu menunggu adalah hampir sejam. ibunya kelihatan semakin resah kerana berdebar untuk mensunatkan anak perempuannya.
setelah tiba gilirannya, maka si ibu dan si ayah masuk ke dalam bilik doktor & memberitahu hajat mereka.
anak perempuannya disuruh berbaring di atas katil yang disediakan.


anak perempuannya sudah dibuka seluarnya & bersedia untuk disunatkan.


doktor perempuan yang akan melakukan pen-sunatan anak kecik itu telah mengeluarkan gunting & memberitahu kepada si ibu bapa, 
gunting hujung sikit ni jek ... 

si ibu yang biasanya agak rock (tapi malam ni jadik penakut plak) tapi masih nak tengok upacara tersebut memegang anak keciknya supaya tidak banyak bergerak. doktor kata,
agah-agah dia sikit. biar dia ketawa-ketawa.

si ayah pon mengagah-agah anak keciknya. anak keciknya ketawa-ketawa gembira sebelum doktor tersebut zasssssss menggunting hujung tutttt nya. anak keciknya yang pada mulanya ketawa kerana diagah oleh ayahnye tiba-tiba terdiam terkedu namun tidak menangis. kelihatan konfius sekali.
si ibu pula yang konon-konon berani nak tengok, telah terrrrrpalingkan mukanya ke arah lain sesambil terasa ngilu tak pasal-pasal, macamlah dia yang kene sunat.

ok sudah setel, setelah terlihat darah. doktor kata,
ni ada darah sikit ni. ni saya letak kapas nanti balik keluarkan kapas dan letak cream pada tutt nya. bagi ubat sekali. kemungkinan dia akan menangis bila kencing nanti sebab pedih.

sedikit ubat makan & krim sapu diberikan oleh pembantu klinik tersebut. dan si ibu membayar rm25 (murah jek sunat pempuan, sunat laki mahal lgggg).
keluar sahaja daripada klinik, si ibu yang tak habis-habis rasa ngilunya tetiba terkeluar air mata kewanitaannya yang konon-konon feel the pain seraya berkata pada si ayahnya,
eyhhhh ... i plak yang rasa ngilu ... tapi kenapa fina cool jek ..?

si budak kecik pulang dengan perasaan gembira, ketawa-ketawa. tidak menangis langsung. terer btol si kecik ni.
si ibunya masih rasa ngilu sampai meliu-liut badannya kalau teringat peristiwa sunat tu.

balik tu, si ibu tukarkan pampers anak keciknya. nak letak ubat pada tutnya pon si ibu bertolak-tolak pada nenek si kecik & bapa si kecik --- nampaknya semua penakut. akhirnye si ibu yang letak cream sambil terasa ngilu (yang tak habis-habis lagi).

tapi si kecik tak de plak menangis (sebab kesakitan, menangis sikit-sikit sebab nak tido jek ada la).hebat betul budak kecik ni! ibunya nak tido pon rasa ngilu lagi (dah tido barulah hilang rasa ngilu).

fuhhhhhhh.
maka selesai sudah misi si ibu untuk mensunatkan anaknya.
lega! (lagi lega sebab si kecik tak meragam hehe).

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

righty has more than lefty?

this morning, my normal output --- righty is more than lefty.


significant different!
anyone facing such problem?
just doing some reading in internet --- yes, its normal.
so don't need to worry!

ok dah bole balik sekarang.

Monday, March 26, 2012

"cukur bantal" kekdahnye




ini ialah belakang rambut fina paling latest. usia rambut adalah 3 bulan sekarang.

persoalannya sekarang--- kenapa tiada rambut tumbuh di kawasan senyum itu?
tolongggggggglah jgn cakap "ni cukur bantal ni ..."
sebabnya, masa hari pertama cukur lagi (shaved when she was 22 days) kawasan "senyum" tu memang dah terbentuk. memang putih jek, tidak hitam macam kawasan lain. maka sudah dijangka akan berlaku "daerah tiada pertumbuhan rambut".

tapi kenapa orang dok cakap "cukur bantal", tak de kena mengena kottt. pastu ada plak orang kata sebab baby banyak baring. masalahnye fina tido meniarap! i adalah konfius. dan malas nak layan. maka ya kan ajelah tiap kali orang sebut "cukur bantal niiii".

haih. dah 3 bulan dah tunggu ni rambut tak tumbuh-tumbuh jugak.
memang nak kene shave lagi sekali ni (do u know the more u shaved baby's head, the more cantik hair will grow? maka silalah shaved banyak-banyak kali!).
note--- hadzim cukur botak 2 kali. dah sampai 2 kali dah puas hati, dah cantik rambut so tak payah cukur lagi dah hehe :)

cukur botak lagi sekali ok, fina. no mercy, hahaha.
but not very soon because we are going for vacation on next month --- tak cantik plak nanti gamba percutian keluarga --- yang akan diabadikan seumur hidup --- yang akan kamu tengok bila dah besar nanti, sebab pakai headband tapi tak de rambut, hiuhiuhiu. maka haruslah ditunda sehingga pulang dari vacation nanti.

calling for rambut cantik, sila kuar cepat-cepat lepas cukur nanti ok!


p/s fina turn 4 months today. will update her progress in another blog.

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

a schedule for working mom-of-2

6.05am - the alarm clock make noise. terus off (i'm not the type who will snooze the alarm hehe). bath, solat, prepare baju siang & baju tidur for fina & hadzim. so that my mom will not need to naik turun tangga to take fina / hadzim's cloth.


6.30am - switch on tv & watch  listen to the news (sebab malam-malam skang dah tak tengok news hal dunia, dok bz layan cite korea at 8pm). prepare breakfast for hafdzuan & hadzim. for hadzim - breakfast kat rumah + bekal to his playschool skali. 


6.50am - i make sure i started pump at this time. pumping time must ends at 7.10am no matter what, cannot beyond the time! served fresh milk for fina. pack the pumping set & place them next to door (takut tertinggal punye pasal).


7.15am - prepare myself to work. mom helps to bath & prepare hadzim to school. i prepared hafdzuan's working attire (i try not to forget to choose his tie, if not he will belasah whatever color to wear eventhough the tie's color did not match with his shirt & that makes my eyes sick!). had my breakfast sambil-sambil suap hadzim.  


7.35am - start the car's engine. hubs back from his jogging / bicycling (morning exercise, yeahhh my husband do runs before off to work, gile betui), salam cemolot him & send hadzim to his school (kalau i dah lambat hubs will send him).


8am - 6pm --- working time.


6.30pm - drive like a mad woman & try to arrive home by this time. and do whatever it takes as a mom / wife duty (not need to state because the time does not need to be rushed).


12am - i will make sure i will off to lalaland by this time (if i was happen to be found online during this time, it means hubs is out of the country so i need to online to chat with him :D)




i just want to jot down this schedule for my own memory to be treasured, one daylah, masa dah anak 3 ke. to see how hectic my life was when i have 2 kids (i bet its going to be more hectic when i got 3 later-later-later (byk btol later dgn harapan lambat lagi laaa kan!)). and yeah, this schedule is not applicable who don't have their mom who stays together with them ;)  
mom does help me a lot --- she bathed the kids & cook for dinner too (i cooked dinner, sometimes, depends). tak aci kan? elehhhh korang jelesjelesjeles sebab tak dapat makan masakan omak as often as i am :P


dulu masa anak sorang i bgn pkl 6.20am. sekarang anak 2 org bangun pkl 6.05am.
mungkinkah anak dah 3 nanti i will start my day at 5.30am ..? hurmmmm. 


so how about other moms who runs their daily schedule with only their partner at home & does not have any help like me? i'm pretty sure your schedule is as packed as a prime minister (cewahhh) :)




p/s mom will take her 2 weeks break & going for Europe trip in 2 weeks time. its going to be a hectic morning for me. bring it on!

Monday, February 27, 2012

my second born

after my first born, here are notes for my second born (to be treasured for the whole life).


1. WAS YOUR SECOND PREGNANCY PLANNED?
yes. i wanted to deliver some date in November or December. i wished for end-of-the-year baby!

2. WERE YOU MARRIED AT THE TIME?
belum. ngeeeeeeeeee (jadah soklan x releven utk anak ke-2).

3. WHAT WERE YOUR REACTION?
very happy & super excited. i tested the urine test on the first day i should get my period (i know, tak saba gile). 

4. HOW OLD WERE YOU?
28 (almost 29).

5. HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT?
pregnancy test kit.

6. WHO DID YOU TELL FIRST?
hafdzuan definitely. 

7. DID YOU WANT TO FIND OUT THE SEX?
at first we don't want to know the gender, wanna have some surprise in labor room. but, 9 months is a very longggg journey to go thru without knowing the gender, we cannot tahan anymore. susah nak buat preparation. so we did the ultra scan 3x, including 4d scan but still couldn't see the gender. frust betul. only by 34wks, when i did my FPP checkup with dr azmi (and hafdzuan was in Taiwan at that time), dr azmi told me the gender. frust betul hafdzuan who did not hear it himself (everytime dapat tau gender mesti dia tak de skali. baby takmo tunjuk gender kat ayah kekdahnye). 

8. DUE DATE?
1 Dec 2011

9. WHEN WAS YOUR CHILD ACTUALLY BORN?
26 November 2011

10. HOW MUCH DID YOUR CHILD WEIGH?
2.84kg

11. DID YOU HAVE MORNING SICKNESS?
a few times. the worst one - i remembered i threw up in the office toilet once. it was at my wk14, i threw up because somebody had eaten the whole lorry of petai the day before (i know who you are) were doing business in the toilet & berbau petai. dengggggggg (hampir pengsan haku)!!

12. WHAT DID YOU CRAVE?
not exactly the food, i crave to eat at expensive restaurants hahaha ;) hafdzuan complain cakap bankrupt laa ini macam :P

13. WHO/WHAT IRRITATED YOU THE MOST?
nil

14. WHAT WAS YOUR SECOND CHILD'S SEX?
female

15. DID YOU WISH YOU HAD THE OPPOSITE SEX OF WHAT YOU WERE GETTING?
hurmmm. hubs wished for boy, senang nak buat team relay triathlon nanti kekdahnye. but for me, i dont mind bout the gender. if its a boy - hubs get what he wants, if its a girl - we are lucky because we already have a pair, nothing to complain ;)

16. HOW MANY POUNDS DID YOU GAIN THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY?
11kg 

17. DID YOU HAVE A BABY SHOWER?
no

18. WAS IT A SURPRISE OR DID YOU KNOW?
-

19. DID YOU HAVE ANY COMPLICATIONS DURING YOUR PREGNANCY?
no at all. besides, no heart burn & no cramps this time :) only at the end of pregnancy (wk39), dr azmi finds out my water bag was getting reduce thus he suggested for induce.

20. WHERE DID YOU GIVE BIRTH?
putrajaya hospital, but this time thru FPP scheme.

21. HOW MANY HOURS WERE YOU IN LABOR?
2 minutes jek kot, i almost deliver in the ward!

22. WHO DROVE YOU TO THE HOSPITAL?
hafdzuan the husband. we went to CIMB first, have breakfast at mamak and only then to the hospital. had bloody show once i reach hospital thus i don't need to be induced. 

23. WHO WATCHED YOU GIVE BIRTH?
doctor, midwives, nurses and who ever should be in the roomlah. and hafdzuan too :) he was all the way with me, until the delivering process.

24. WAS IT NATURAL OR C-SECTION?
SVD (spontaneous vaginal delivery).

25. DID YOU TAKE MEDICINE TO EASE THE PAIN?
pathedine (buang masa, doesnt ease the pain at all kahkahkah).

26. WHAT DID YOU NAME HIM/HER?
Hadfina Farwizah binti Mohd Hafdzuan

(both of us choose the first name, while second name was hafdzuan's choice).

27. HOW OLD IS YOUR FIRST BORN TODAY?

3 months



Friday, February 24, 2012

Ebm stocks

next week will be my first month of working after come back from my maternity leave.

to tell the truth, i started work with almost 500 oz stocks of ebm. 
due to limited space in my own fridge and i still have to store chickens, fishes, nuggets & etc (kalau tak dapur tak berasap laa takkan nak hidang ebm stocks kat laki), i have to tumpang my cousin's fridge (who live in front of my  house!) as my fridge can't afford to store all of them, maklumlah fridge 2 pintu sajewww bukan yang jenis 2 pintu-bukak-kanan-kiri-macam almari. 

im so worried & keep bothering my mind, where the hell to store my ebm once i started work --- im trying to avoid to buy deep freezer (yeahhh im that stingy plus the bonus has not come out yet that explains why im so stingy kehkehkeh).

then the idea of where-to-store-my-ebm comes when i started my work.
my office fridge! hiuhiuhiu :)
luckily i got the permission from HR dept (as the fridge own by HR team) to use the freezer.


here are my stocks, almost 40 packets of 5 / 6 / 7oz (in the bekas dadih one is not mine, it was my colleague who pumped in the office too. i harap dia tak stress tengok stok i ni hihihi).


i never brought them back, yet. buat macam fridge sendiri plak, ewah ewah.
need to clear all the stocks in my fridge first before i bring them back.
(i've cleared stocks in my cousin's fridge, and now my own fridge pulak).

tp be honest, susu haku tak de laa mencurah-curah sangat. most of the time i could get around 4-7 oz per pumping (for both boobs) and im so freaking jealous (bila mode dengki datang) to those who can able to get 8oz or more per pumping.
tapi kalau banyak sangat pon kang kene beli deep freezer plak (here come the stingy thinking).
so tak pe la, i think the amount is enough for my little girl right now (amount akan rasa cukup sebab stok tgh byk, i will be panic-at-the-disco when i open my fridge and there are only 3 packets left).


 
my almost 3 months baby. 3 months to go for 6months exclusive breastfeeding, alhamdulillah (target sikit2 dulu takut mental huhu). 


eh, by the way, sape kata baby girl tak kuat susu??? fina sama naik jek dengan hadzim. i have to prepare about 3oz x 7 bottle (total = 21oz) per day, okeh ..?
dengan ini, i annouced "teori baby boy lebih kuat menyusu daripada baby girl" adalah tidak boleh dipakai sama sekali (untuk i) huhu.


p/s congrats to my childhood bff Lilia who delivered her 2nd boy on last wed. boboiboys rules - more cars & trucks in the house yoo & happy breastfeeding ;)

Thursday, February 16, 2012

occupied ... as for now :)

my hands are occupied ... as for now :)

my very first photo with both of them.