Wednesday, February 24, 2010

6 months off for course *sigh*

before we got married, when both of us were manufacturing slave, hafdzuan told me: "one of us must join the government".
u know the reasons why - to get the pencen, benefits, and bla bla bla (if we are a government slave).

to be honest, i did not see any excitement to be part of the govenrment staff (at the moment laa, sooner or later i will not know yet). i feel like - macam leceh jek nak apply, and what options do i have? being a - lecturer? officer? engineer? researcher? i just keep in silent mode everytime when he asked me did i apply on any govt vacancies. sigh. so he was the one who always give a try.

then, hafdzuan went for his PTD exam.
first trial - failed!
second trial - made it to the final interview round & success!
he received his PTD offer a week right after we get married. *most valuable wedding presents*
tu laa org kata, rezeki kahwin. naik-naik keje terus tender resignation (he was working with S*ny as senior engineer at that time).



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ok, panjang plak intro nye.

make it to the point --- in order to confirm his position, he needs to attend a DPA (Diploma Pentadbiran Awam) course from 1/3 till 30/9 (it is 6 months yooo!). luckily it will be held in Intan KL & he is allowed to go back only in weekends (not every weekend perhaps).

im not sure how to express my feelings.
despite all the rumours i heard bout DPA course, i just hope ...... he will be as what-he-is when he come back after the 6 months period.
i might need to do a long list for him before he left ;)

so this is what he will be for the next 6 months:
a weekend husband.
a weekend father.
obviously, he will miss hadzim first walk & first words (thats all i can think of right now).

i shall be ok ... i think.
after all, its only 6 months..
:) :l :(

12 comments:

Dils said...

Ohhh.. tu memang tak best. Banyaknye mende die akan miss and also planning yang akan terbantut.

But at least at Intan yek? Tadek la die akan waste precious time travelling jauh2 to go back home.

afdni said...

owwhhhh.. cm tk best jek..

FrH said...

dila - yeahhh. mcm tu laa nampaknye. huh. luckily kt sini, kalau kt tengganu ke mmg tunggu cuti panjang baru balik kot ..

kak yuni - memang tak best pon ......... :(

Diyana said...

meh aku sambung lg benefit keje krajaan..senang wat loan,cakap je nak pinjam bank,berduyun2 pegawai bank yg sanggup turun pi mai pi mai pujuk soh wat loan dgn depa..haha.

ala,kejap je tu farah.aku dl,preknen sorang2 kat johor,ateng keje kat penang tau.suma utk future famili jg kan. apapun,hati kene tabah skitla..chaiyok2..;)

FrH said...

donat - hehe ye ke .. xpernah lg amik loan sejak dia keje gomen ni (loan umah n kete amik masa kete private dulu, xpe simpan dulu hehe).

perghh pregnant plak tu. huwaaaa. yelah tgh tabahkan hati la ni. thanks anyway :)

Rembo said...

rileks la. bukan INTAN kluang pun. Atau pun intan Damansara. muahahaha

FrH said...

rembo - Intan Mont Kiara la .. ahaha

dedalie said...

tu laaa tabahkan hati ye..6 bulan tu pejam celik je..

p!nkerton said...

good luck yeah.. terpaksa sacrifice sket 6 bulan ni. DPA boleh balik every wknd kan, tapi penat sket la kot.

FrH said...

dalie - yeah. pejam celik 8 juta kali laaaa .. ;)

fateh - not every weekend dgr ceritanya .. thanks anyway :)

Ms SZ said...

salam. blog walking dan baca entry ini. harap bersabar ye puan. lepas 6 bulan (act 7 rite) semuanya akan kembali seperti sedia kala. saya seorang isteri yang selalu kena tinggal dengan suami, tp lom ada anak. huhuhu.

btw, sy sedang kursus di INTAN bukit kiara. Ramai sangat org DPA. 417 orang. Sesak-sesak. Nampak diorang macam penat je. cant wait nak habiskan kursus 3 minggu neh. macam mana mereka ye? lama tul

FrH said...

ms sz - thanx for dropping by. hehe 1st week mmg very hetic. tp esk dpt balik dah. thanx anyway :)