my second born

after my first born, here are notes for my second born (to be treasured for the whole life).


1. WAS YOUR SECOND PREGNANCY PLANNED?
yes. i wanted to deliver some date in November or December. i wished for end-of-the-year baby!

2. WERE YOU MARRIED AT THE TIME?
belum. ngeeeeeeeeee (jadah soklan x releven utk anak ke-2).

3. WHAT WERE YOUR REACTION?
very happy & super excited. i tested the urine test on the first day i should get my period (i know, tak saba gile). 

4. HOW OLD WERE YOU?
28 (almost 29).

5. HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT?
pregnancy test kit.

6. WHO DID YOU TELL FIRST?
hafdzuan definitely. 

7. DID YOU WANT TO FIND OUT THE SEX?
at first we don't want to know the gender, wanna have some surprise in labor room. but, 9 months is a very longggg journey to go thru without knowing the gender, we cannot tahan anymore. susah nak buat preparation. so we did the ultra scan 3x, including 4d scan but still couldn't see the gender. frust betul. only by 34wks, when i did my FPP checkup with dr azmi (and hafdzuan was in Taiwan at that time), dr azmi told me the gender. frust betul hafdzuan who did not hear it himself (everytime dapat tau gender mesti dia tak de skali. baby takmo tunjuk gender kat ayah kekdahnye). 

8. DUE DATE?
1 Dec 2011

9. WHEN WAS YOUR CHILD ACTUALLY BORN?
26 November 2011

10. HOW MUCH DID YOUR CHILD WEIGH?
2.84kg

11. DID YOU HAVE MORNING SICKNESS?
a few times. the worst one - i remembered i threw up in the office toilet once. it was at my wk14, i threw up because somebody had eaten the whole lorry of petai the day before (i know who you are) were doing business in the toilet & berbau petai. dengggggggg (hampir pengsan haku)!!

12. WHAT DID YOU CRAVE?
not exactly the food, i crave to eat at expensive restaurants hahaha ;) hafdzuan complain cakap bankrupt laa ini macam :P

13. WHO/WHAT IRRITATED YOU THE MOST?
nil

14. WHAT WAS YOUR SECOND CHILD'S SEX?
female

15. DID YOU WISH YOU HAD THE OPPOSITE SEX OF WHAT YOU WERE GETTING?
hurmmm. hubs wished for boy, senang nak buat team relay triathlon nanti kekdahnye. but for me, i dont mind bout the gender. if its a boy - hubs get what he wants, if its a girl - we are lucky because we already have a pair, nothing to complain ;)

16. HOW MANY POUNDS DID YOU GAIN THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY?
11kg 

17. DID YOU HAVE A BABY SHOWER?
no

18. WAS IT A SURPRISE OR DID YOU KNOW?
-

19. DID YOU HAVE ANY COMPLICATIONS DURING YOUR PREGNANCY?
no at all. besides, no heart burn & no cramps this time :) only at the end of pregnancy (wk39), dr azmi finds out my water bag was getting reduce thus he suggested for induce.

20. WHERE DID YOU GIVE BIRTH?
putrajaya hospital, but this time thru FPP scheme.

21. HOW MANY HOURS WERE YOU IN LABOR?
2 minutes jek kot, i almost deliver in the ward!

22. WHO DROVE YOU TO THE HOSPITAL?
hafdzuan the husband. we went to CIMB first, have breakfast at mamak and only then to the hospital. had bloody show once i reach hospital thus i don't need to be induced. 

23. WHO WATCHED YOU GIVE BIRTH?
doctor, midwives, nurses and who ever should be in the roomlah. and hafdzuan too :) he was all the way with me, until the delivering process.

24. WAS IT NATURAL OR C-SECTION?
SVD (spontaneous vaginal delivery).

25. DID YOU TAKE MEDICINE TO EASE THE PAIN?
pathedine (buang masa, doesnt ease the pain at all kahkahkah).

26. WHAT DID YOU NAME HIM/HER?
Hadfina Farwizah binti Mohd Hafdzuan
(both of us choose the first name, while second name was hafdzuan's choice).

27. HOW OLD IS YOUR FIRST BORN TODAY?
3 months

Ebm stocks

next week will be my first month of working after come back from my maternity leave.

to tell the truth, i started work with almost 500 oz stocks of ebm. 

due to limited space in my own fridge and i still have to store chickens, fishes, nuggets & etc (kalau tak dapur tak berasap laa takkan nak hidang ebm stocks kat laki), i have to tumpang my cousin's fridge (who live in front of my  house!) as my fridge can't afford to store all of them, maklumlah fridge 2 pintu sajewww bukan yang jenis 2 pintu-bukak-kanan-kiri-macam almari. 

im so worried & keep bothering my mind, where the hell to store my ebm once i started work --- im trying to avoid to buy deep freezer (yeahhh im that stingy plus the bonus has not come out yet that explains why im so stingy kehkehkeh).

then the idea of where-to-store-my-ebm comes when i started my work.

my office fridge! hiuhiuhiu :)

luckily i got the permission from HR dept (as the fridge own by HR team) to use the freezer.

here are my stocks, almost 40 packets of 5 / 6 / 7oz (in the bekas dadih one is not mine, it was my colleague who pumped in the office too. i harap dia tak stress tengok stok i ni hihihi).

i never brought them back, yet. buat macam fridge sendiri plak, ewah ewah.
need to clear all the stocks in my fridge first before i bring them back.
(i've cleared stocks in my cousin's fridge, and now my own fridge pulak).

tp be honest, susu haku tak de laa mencurah-curah sangat. most of the time i could get around 4-7 oz per pumping (for both boobs) and im so freaking jealous (bila mode dengki datang) to those who can able to get 8oz or more per pumping.
tapi kalau banyak sangat pon kang kene beli deep freezer plak (here come the stingy thinking).
so tak pe la, i think the amount is enough for my little girl right now (amount akan rasa cukup sebab stok tgh byk, i will be panic-at-the-disco when i open my fridge and there are only 3 packets left).

 

my almost 3 months baby. 3 months to go for 6months exclusive breastfeeding, alhamdulillah (target sikit2 dulu takut mental huhu). 

eh, by the way, sape kata baby girl tak kuat susu??? fina sama naik jek dengan hadzim. i have to prepare about 3oz x 7 bottle (total = 21oz) per day, okeh ..?

dengan ini, i annouced "teori baby boy lebih kuat menyusu daripada baby girl" adalah tidak boleh dipakai sama sekali (untuk i) huhu.

p/s congrats to my childhood bff Lilia who delivered her 2nd boy on last wed. boboiboys rules - more cars & trucks in the house yoo & happy breastfeeding ;)

occupied ... as for now :)

my hands are occupied ... as for now :)

my very first photo with both of them.

hadzim vs hadfina

disebabkan i dah ada sepasang anak (cewahhh), maka i dah boleh nampak sedikit sebanyak perbezaan antara mereka. raising both of them makes me can compare on their behavior during baby's stage :)
(this is just a note to myself so that the memory will remains).

 hadzim (left) & hadfina (right) on their first day 

my boy, Hadzim Faeiq was born on 30/6/2009, at 40w10d, weighing 3.04kg, length 53cm, emergency c-sect delivery.

my girl, Hadfina Farwizah was born on 26/11/11, at 39w2d, weighing 2.84kg, length 50cm, vaginal delivery.

hadzim (left) & hadfina (right) - photo was taken during their 1st month

both of them had their first breastfeeding on their very first day.
hadzim lewat sikit, was fed 6 hours after the operation.
while fina was fed 1 hour right after she delivered. tapi lepas bf, fina ditahan pula di NICU selama 4 hari maka she was fed using tube / bottle while she was there.
between both of them, hadzim was very good in sucking, tapi fina selalu jek terlepas masa awal-awal tu. lama juga laa nak adapt. maybe because she had been using bottle on her first 4 days.

hadzim tanggal pusat pada hari ke-4. fina pula pada hari ke-7.

hadzim adalah baby yang sangat baik (semasa baby laaa .. sekarang ..? hahahha!!!). tak suka tahan mata kalau mengantuk. tido manjang. sekali tido memang 2-3 jam. unlike fina, suka tahan mata. tido kejap-kejap saja. kecuali kalau dah mengantuk sangat barulah dia tido panjang, tapi sebelum tu dia akan mengamuk dulu barulah tido.

hadzim has very beautiful skin, tak pernah ada rashes, not even once. and i don't give a damn on rashes cream at all masa tu sebab tak pernah beli. unlike fina, kena rashes kat muka, leher, buntut, kepala (sebab cukur rambut awal sangat). maka haruslah barang mekap fina ni adalah banyak - rashes cream, nappy cream, mandi pon pakai sebamed (sebelum ni i tak pernah tau pon pasal sebamed). skin fina agak sensitif juga. fina tak boleh tidur atas cadar i, kalau tak naik laa rashes. jadi dia kene tidur atas tilam dia, ataupon beralaskan kain bersih lain. aduhai princess abesss.

hadzim (left) & hadfina (right) - photo was taken during their 2nd month

jarang sekali dapat dengar hadzim menangis masa dia baby dulu. fina plak tak de laa kerap sangat menangis, tp kalau nak dibandingkan dgn hadzim dia kuat sikit laa menangis. suara pun boleh tahan kuat jugak. baby girl kot, manja lebih ;)

hadzim sangatlah suka mandi, tak pernah menangis masa mandi. mungkin sebab masa pregnantkan hadzim dulu i banyak swimming (until 8 months pegi swimming lagi yo!). by 2 months hadzim dah tak mandi pakai air panas dah, bedal saja mandi kat sink dengan air paip yang sejuk. unlike fina, setiap kali mandi mesti nangis, takut air! nangis stok kene pukul punye, sampai meraung-raung. mula-mula tu sape-sape mandikan dia panik laa dengar dia nangis, lama-lama dah biasa dah. mungkin fina jadi macam tu sebab i langsung tak pergi swimming time pregnantkan dia. so next-pregnant must-go-for-swimming. lesson learnt!

hadzim suka ngempeng. nak tido kene ngempeng. kadang-kadang sepanjang malam dia tido sambil ngempeng. fina plak tak suka ngempeng dan tidak bergantung kepada ngempeng untuk tido. once she done, she will immediately released the nipple. masa tido malam pon sama, sampai i tak sedar bilalah dia unlock ;)

hadzim tak cerewet part susu. be it susu sejuk (tak sempat panas sepenuhnya) or fm, semua dia balun. unlike fina, she refused to drink ebm, siap buat muka lain maybe sbb rasa dah lain kot (tapi i paksa juga, so sekarang dah ok dah). i can see i will face the problem when switching fina's milk to fm later, she is so choosy!

hadzim tido malam bangun 2-4 kali untuk bf. while fina 1-2 times only. i is suka!!

bila tukar pampers hadzim time dia tengah tido, dia akan rilek jek tido. fina plak selalunya menagis time tukar pampers, masa tengah tido tukar pampers pon dia akan nangis. lepas tukar terus tido balik. fina really don't like pampers changing.

during first 2 months, hadzim berak between 6-8 times per day. while fina 3-5 times. baby girl kurang berak kah ..?

hadzim bole main sorang-sorang, chill sorang-sorang sambil tengok tv & lepak diam-diam kat bouncer dia. while fina cepat boring kalau duduk sorang-sorang, mulalah dia panggil-panggil orang dan suruh angkat dia. akan melalak kalau tak de orang angkat dia. lebih suka position berdiri daripada baring bila pegang dia. ohhh mengadewww.

i rasa fina lebih bergerak aktif compared to hadzim. fina tak reti duduk diam, tangan kaki semua asyik bergerak-gerak, kalau pakai selimut abis semua dia tolak. kalau pakai booties pon entah mana-mana tercampak (booties fina banyak hilang sebelah, entah mana-mana laaa jatuh). pernah sekali entah mcm mana fina buat sampai tertanggal seluar panjang dia, terbugil pakai pampers jek. eyhhh dia dah pandai bukak seluar sendiri ke..? hehe. i have no idea how she could do that ...

(itu saja yang dapat i fikir buat masa sekarang).

mama kata, bersalinkan hadzim susah, dah laa overdue, baby distress & kena caesar. bila dah caesar maka lambatlah nak recover. sebab tu Allah bagi hadzim yang baik & mudah dijaga masa dalam pantang. segala-galanya senang untuk hadzim.
tak seperti hadfina. sangat mudah bersalinkan dia, sakit sekejap jek & dapat deliver normal (Allah bagi apa yang i doa & harapkan). tapi dugaan datang ketika menjaganya, macam-macam kerenah. memang diva abis, haha.
tak pelah ... God is just being fair.
dan i terima dengan hati yang terbuka
*smile*

USS

our first vacation in 2012. weehoooo.

haruslah ada vacation thn ni sbg balas dendam thn lps tak ke mana-mana pon.

apapun, maternity leave should ends with vacation ... tak gitewww? hihihi ;)

went to USS on last monday (30/1).

pegi weekdays mmg terbaek. org tak berapa ramai & q kejap jek. i loikeee.

 fina yang kene tinggal.  sorrylah cik adik sayang. tak sesuai lg nak ikut. lgpon cuaca panas (mcm2 alasan huhuhu). we will bring you next time okayah? fina left with my mom at my aunty's place in singapore.

we took train from my aunty's place in eunos to pearl harbour. then change to monorail from vivo city to sentosa.

we purschased the USS ticket by online. hadzim tak payah bayar yeeeeeaa (kids aged 4 & above saja kene bayar. jimattt).

height requirement. thank God most of the ride hadzim dapat naik.

boat ride at madagascar 

had our snack bar. boleh bawak makanan ok! tak de pon kecoh nak check bag mcm kat Disneyland HK aritu. huh.kalau tau tak de check bag haruslah aku bawak bekal nasik lomak terusss. 

hadzim's 1st ever roller coaster ride. siap cakap "nak lagi". hamboiii tak takut langsung. 

  

lunch. and its halal yo! (tapi mahal nak mamp ... makan ajee laaa hehe). 

break for praying & pumping in the surau (surau pon ada yo dalam ni!).  

 and hadzim took his nap. hafdzuan took the chance for galactica roller coaster ride.

galactica roller coaster ride yg bisa muntah serta sudah menelan 4bijik i phone aritu ... i jaga handphone dia kat bawah ;) (sbnrnye ngeri nak naik sorang2 hehe). 

the best ride ever!!! 

hollywood street

 film making demo

kecik jek USS ni kalau nak compare dgn HK Disneyland masa i pegi thn 2010 dulu. siap bole round 2 kali lg USS ni, punyelah kecik, hehe.

apa pun kami sekeluarga mmg enjoy walaupon hadzim byk buat scene kat USS. maka dengan itu i pon semangat nak start keje hari ni.

selamat bekerja untuk diri sendiri. hihihi.