hadzim vs hadfina

disebabkan i dah ada sepasang anak (cewahhh), maka i dah boleh nampak sedikit sebanyak perbezaan antara mereka. raising both of them makes me can compare on their behavior during baby's stage :)
(this is just a note to myself so that the memory will remains).

 hadzim (left) & hadfina (right) on their first day 

my boy, Hadzim Faeiq was born on 30/6/2009, at 40w10d, weighing 3.04kg, length 53cm, emergency c-sect delivery.

my girl, Hadfina Farwizah was born on 26/11/11, at 39w2d, weighing 2.84kg, length 50cm, vaginal delivery.

hadzim (left) & hadfina (right) - photo was taken during their 1st month

both of them had their first breastfeeding on their very first day.
hadzim lewat sikit, was fed 6 hours after the operation.
while fina was fed 1 hour right after she delivered. tapi lepas bf, fina ditahan pula di NICU selama 4 hari maka she was fed using tube / bottle while she was there.
between both of them, hadzim was very good in sucking, tapi fina selalu jek terlepas masa awal-awal tu. lama juga laa nak adapt. maybe because she had been using bottle on her first 4 days.

hadzim tanggal pusat pada hari ke-4. fina pula pada hari ke-7.

hadzim adalah baby yang sangat baik (semasa baby laaa .. sekarang ..? hahahha!!!). tak suka tahan mata kalau mengantuk. tido manjang. sekali tido memang 2-3 jam. unlike fina, suka tahan mata. tido kejap-kejap saja. kecuali kalau dah mengantuk sangat barulah dia tido panjang, tapi sebelum tu dia akan mengamuk dulu barulah tido.

hadzim has very beautiful skin, tak pernah ada rashes, not even once. and i don't give a damn on rashes cream at all masa tu sebab tak pernah beli. unlike fina, kena rashes kat muka, leher, buntut, kepala (sebab cukur rambut awal sangat). maka haruslah barang mekap fina ni adalah banyak - rashes cream, nappy cream, mandi pon pakai sebamed (sebelum ni i tak pernah tau pon pasal sebamed). skin fina agak sensitif juga. fina tak boleh tidur atas cadar i, kalau tak naik laa rashes. jadi dia kene tidur atas tilam dia, ataupon beralaskan kain bersih lain. aduhai princess abesss.

hadzim (left) & hadfina (right) - photo was taken during their 2nd month

jarang sekali dapat dengar hadzim menangis masa dia baby dulu. fina plak tak de laa kerap sangat menangis, tp kalau nak dibandingkan dgn hadzim dia kuat sikit laa menangis. suara pun boleh tahan kuat jugak. baby girl kot, manja lebih ;)

hadzim sangatlah suka mandi, tak pernah menangis masa mandi. mungkin sebab masa pregnantkan hadzim dulu i banyak swimming (until 8 months pegi swimming lagi yo!). by 2 months hadzim dah tak mandi pakai air panas dah, bedal saja mandi kat sink dengan air paip yang sejuk. unlike fina, setiap kali mandi mesti nangis, takut air! nangis stok kene pukul punye, sampai meraung-raung. mula-mula tu sape-sape mandikan dia panik laa dengar dia nangis, lama-lama dah biasa dah. mungkin fina jadi macam tu sebab i langsung tak pergi swimming time pregnantkan dia. so next-pregnant must-go-for-swimming. lesson learnt!

hadzim suka ngempeng. nak tido kene ngempeng. kadang-kadang sepanjang malam dia tido sambil ngempeng. fina plak tak suka ngempeng dan tidak bergantung kepada ngempeng untuk tido. once she done, she will immediately released the nipple. masa tido malam pon sama, sampai i tak sedar bilalah dia unlock ;)

hadzim tak cerewet part susu. be it susu sejuk (tak sempat panas sepenuhnya) or fm, semua dia balun. unlike fina, she refused to drink ebm, siap buat muka lain maybe sbb rasa dah lain kot (tapi i paksa juga, so sekarang dah ok dah). i can see i will face the problem when switching fina's milk to fm later, she is so choosy!

hadzim tido malam bangun 2-4 kali untuk bf. while fina 1-2 times only. i is suka!!

bila tukar pampers hadzim time dia tengah tido, dia akan rilek jek tido. fina plak selalunya menagis time tukar pampers, masa tengah tido tukar pampers pon dia akan nangis. lepas tukar terus tido balik. fina really don't like pampers changing.

during first 2 months, hadzim berak between 6-8 times per day. while fina 3-5 times. baby girl kurang berak kah ..?

hadzim bole main sorang-sorang, chill sorang-sorang sambil tengok tv & lepak diam-diam kat bouncer dia. while fina cepat boring kalau duduk sorang-sorang, mulalah dia panggil-panggil orang dan suruh angkat dia. akan melalak kalau tak de orang angkat dia. lebih suka position berdiri daripada baring bila pegang dia. ohhh mengadewww.

i rasa fina lebih bergerak aktif compared to hadzim. fina tak reti duduk diam, tangan kaki semua asyik bergerak-gerak, kalau pakai selimut abis semua dia tolak. kalau pakai booties pon entah mana-mana tercampak (booties fina banyak hilang sebelah, entah mana-mana laaa jatuh). pernah sekali entah mcm mana fina buat sampai tertanggal seluar panjang dia, terbugil pakai pampers jek. eyhhh dia dah pandai bukak seluar sendiri ke..? hehe. i have no idea how she could do that ...

(itu saja yang dapat i fikir buat masa sekarang).

mama kata, bersalinkan hadzim susah, dah laa overdue, baby distress & kena caesar. bila dah caesar maka lambatlah nak recover. sebab tu Allah bagi hadzim yang baik & mudah dijaga masa dalam pantang. segala-galanya senang untuk hadzim.
tak seperti hadfina. sangat mudah bersalinkan dia, sakit sekejap jek & dapat deliver normal (Allah bagi apa yang i doa & harapkan). tapi dugaan datang ketika menjaganya, macam-macam kerenah. memang diva abis, haha.
tak pelah ... God is just being fair.
dan i terima dengan hati yang terbuka
*smile*

USS

our first vacation in 2012. weehoooo.

haruslah ada vacation thn ni sbg balas dendam thn lps tak ke mana-mana pon.

apapun, maternity leave should ends with vacation ... tak gitewww? hihihi ;)

went to USS on last monday (30/1).

pegi weekdays mmg terbaek. org tak berapa ramai & q kejap jek. i loikeee.

 fina yang kene tinggal.  sorrylah cik adik sayang. tak sesuai lg nak ikut. lgpon cuaca panas (mcm2 alasan huhuhu). we will bring you next time okayah? fina left with my mom at my aunty's place in singapore.

we took train from my aunty's place in eunos to pearl harbour. then change to monorail from vivo city to sentosa.

we purschased the USS ticket by online. hadzim tak payah bayar yeeeeeaa (kids aged 4 & above saja kene bayar. jimattt).

height requirement. thank God most of the ride hadzim dapat naik.

boat ride at madagascar 

had our snack bar. boleh bawak makanan ok! tak de pon kecoh nak check bag mcm kat Disneyland HK aritu. huh.kalau tau tak de check bag haruslah aku bawak bekal nasik lomak terusss. 

hadzim's 1st ever roller coaster ride. siap cakap "nak lagi". hamboiii tak takut langsung. 

  

lunch. and its halal yo! (tapi mahal nak mamp ... makan ajee laaa hehe). 

break for praying & pumping in the surau (surau pon ada yo dalam ni!).  

 and hadzim took his nap. hafdzuan took the chance for galactica roller coaster ride.

galactica roller coaster ride yg bisa muntah serta sudah menelan 4bijik i phone aritu ... i jaga handphone dia kat bawah ;) (sbnrnye ngeri nak naik sorang2 hehe). 

the best ride ever!!! 

hollywood street

 film making demo

kecik jek USS ni kalau nak compare dgn HK Disneyland masa i pegi thn 2010 dulu. siap bole round 2 kali lg USS ni, punyelah kecik, hehe.

apa pun kami sekeluarga mmg enjoy walaupon hadzim byk buat scene kat USS. maka dengan itu i pon semangat nak start keje hari ni.

selamat bekerja untuk diri sendiri. hihihi.

hadzim & playschool

hadzim on his first day to playschool

hadzim is 2 1/2 years right now.
some people say its still early to send him for school.
i have my own reasons why i need to send him now even though he is not 3 yet.

1 - since he was born, my mom took care of hadzim. faham-faham sajalah anak duduk rumah ni kalau nak dicompare dengan anak-anak duduk nursery dari kecik. i personally felt kids who stays with grandparents / babysitter are always behind compared to nursery kids ... they are lack of social skills (tak pandai share mainan, berkawan & etc), communication skills (maklumlah dok borak dengan nenek jek) & lack of toddler activities (ye aku admit mmg tak brape nak rajin buat aktiviti dgn anak (kecuali outdoor activities jek hehe) mcm mak-mak lain sbb aku busy tengok cite korea kalau kat rumah hahaha). so we decided to send him to playschool (playschool ok, bukan tadika) so that he can mix around with toddlers at his age, make some friends, improve his communications skills (sbb hadzim tak cekap bercakap lagi huhu), filled up his daily routine dgn aktiviti-aktiviti berfaedah spt coloring, learning ABC 123 daripada dok layan dvd & main langgar-langgar kereta mainan dia dung-dang-dung-dang-bingit telinga kat rumah ni.

2 - to give my mom break since she's going to take care of fina too. at least half of the day, while hadzim was at his school, my mom can arrange her time to do her work (and that includes her korean drama series huahuahua). petang tu hadzim balik school cuma tinggal nak makan & tido jek. so less burden for her :)

so far hadzim was doing well on his school.
bole bangun awal sendiri tak payah kejut around 7.30am.
had breakfast at home, mandi, pakai baju school & kemudian ayah hantar ke school.
he didnt cry when we send him to school (eyhh tapi smlm masa amik dia, dia tgh nangis sbb tengok kawan-kawan dah balik & i was late pick him up haha).
teacher said he followed the instruction very well, pastu main kejap, pastu sambung buat coloring.
i think its a good start for him.
balik sekolah terus lapa. mintak nasi. mintak susu & off to sleep. should be a tiring day for him.
anyway, his teacher said he broke one of their school table yesterday .. aduhai anakkk. ni baru 2nd day ;)

so this is our plan for hadzim & hope he can cope with our plan:
3 years - playschool (Krista)
4 years - islamic medium (here we have Pasti kindergarten)
5 & 6 years - english medium (not sure where to enrol yet)

mak pak excited kemain, ni baru playschool. darjah 1 nnt tak tau laa camne hihi ;)

so how was your kids doing at their school?
ada yang menangis-menangis, hilang stokin or pecahkan meja mcm hadzim jugak ke?
haha.